Health, Joyful Connection, Midlife, Miracles, Self Care

What’s Going Well For You Today?

“What’s going well for you today?”

I had to stop and think for a moment when my friend asked me this question the other day. I shouldn’t have to think about what went well, but I did. I realized that my complaints come forward much faster than all the goodness that happens in my day.

My friend requested that if each time we spoke that I ask her the same question instead of “How are you?” She said she would really appreciate it because she was working on making better connections in her brain focusing on the positive rather than going negative.

This is a  great self care habit to adopt.

I’ve been doing some experimenting with that statement this past week. What I’ve noticed for myself is I’ve started to scan my brain and be aware of the positive and inspiring points in my day and focusing on those moments rather than the negative ones.

When I ask friends that question, it takes them back a bit, like it did me the first time. It’s been fun to experience the great conversations that have ensued since I’ve started to ask this particular question.

 I taught a senior exercise class on Monday. I opened the class challenging them to ask people from now on, “What’s going well for you today?”

I told them it was better then hearing an organ concert at meal time. “My kidneys, my lungs and oh my gallbladder!” They all agreed that they were going to try out this new question and report back to me next week.

I want to challenge each of you now to answer for yourself and ask the question to your friends.

What’s going well for you today?

Please share in the comments below.

Health, Joyful Connection, Midlife, Miracles, Self Care

Miracle Zone 2017

My own self care process involves me being part of the Your Year Of Miracles Program created by Marci Shimoff & Debra Poneman

I’ve had pages filled with miracles that have occurred in my life since the inception of the program.

Marci & Debra give so much of themselves throughout the entire year for this program.

I’m excited to wake up on Monday mornings for my Monday Morning Miracle Messages to start off my week.

This year for 2017, Marci & Debra are offering a free ebook you can download here The 4 Biggest Mistakes that Keep You From Living a Miraculous Life, you’ll also have the opportunity to claim a free spot in their upcoming 3 Secrets to a Life Filled with Miracles webinar. I know their webinar will rock – especially the live Q and A where they will personally answer your questions and coach you in real time!


I hope you’ll join me for the adventure in 2017!

FYI: To keep everything legal I need to let you know that I’m an affiliate for this program that I believe in so much and will I get commissions for purchases made through links in this post